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17 Apr 2026

Okr1g

Is it necessary to wear pads when only getting discharge? I personally hate having to change my underwear very often because of discharge and im wondering if wearing a pad would help. - Thanks!

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17 Apr 2026

bs24l

I know this sounds trivial, but it’s been weighing on me. My friend 'A' recently tried a field hockey session with me. She didn’t love it, which is fair, but later on, she and another friend 'D' started trashing the sport, calling it boring and saying it has 'no strategy.' I tried to defend it, but they just kept doubling down. It bothered me a little, but I tried to let it go. Later, I was talking to my friend 'M' and made a simple observation: field hockey and soccer are structurally similar, both are 11-a-side and involve moving a ball into a net. M got weirdly aggressive, telling me that if I said that to a 'real, dedicated' soccer fan, I’d get beaten up. When I told her I didn’t really care, perhaps stupidly but I was pissed off she snapped back, 'Well, I hope you do get beaten up by a 22-year-old man.' I was stunned. M doesn't even play soccer (she plays basketball), so the hostility felt like it came out of nowhere. When she started saying all the other sports I could compare it to, I repeated that I didn’t care about her opinion on the matter, she twisted it into a personal attack, crying, 'Oh, so you don't care about me?' She then snapped at me to 'go try that on your other friends since you don't care about them either.' I decided to stay completely silent, eyes glued to my screen, focusing on my Irish-to-English translation, because I didn't want to say something I'd regret. Even then, she kept watching me, eventually snapping, 'Oh, well, since you're ignoring me, enjoy hockey training on Sunday.' The conflict spiked my anxiety so badly that I was physically trembling and in tears. Luckily, some other friends looked after me, and even 'V' who actually plays soccer, confirmed that our PE teacher makes the exact same comparison all the time. My point was valid. Now, M is texting me, acting like the victim. She’s claiming I said 'I don’t care about her' as a person, even though I clearly meant I didn't care about the argument. I’m so frustrated because she’s twisting the narrative to make me the villain when she’s the one who wished harm on me over a sports debate.

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17 Apr 2026

FGcRD

Hi Vicki, is it like normal to feel comfortable with your stretch marks and everything? (bcuz some people ik are rlly insecure) Like I have stretch marks on the side of my butt on both sides (think where the seam of your swimmers is) and i just think they look really cool and i like them! (sorry if this offends anyokne who is insecure about stretch marks-you are beautiful dw boo) But like i have a but of a belly and stomach rolls and big thighs but i think im really comfortable in my own body because ik im healthy. i do get self concious a couple times a day but mostly im fine. For anyone out there who sees this and needs to hear it: You are absolutely beautiful and idgaf if you think you are not becuase everybody is js absolutely gorggggggg. Stomach rolls are normal, stretch marks are beautiful, aysmetrical

for anyone who read that, that is coming from a 13 yr old girl fdom the land down under. Love ya vicki xx

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17 Apr 2026

Fqsx0

Hey Vicki hope you are having a great day, so this probably will sound really weird as I don't know how to word it but how do I know if I'm gay or not I know the first thing you might think to say is well are you attracted to boys or girls but the last time I had a crush was when I was like 8 I am 12 now and I'm not sure what to do because like it's a 50 50 chance that I'm gay or straight and all my friends know what sexuality they are and they keep asking me but I'm not sure what to say so I just say that I don't know. Thanks Vicki xx

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16 Apr 2026

3ybVw

Ok so I have this friend who used to bully me and once said “just because her mom’s dead doesn’t mean she can be a b***h” and I got really upset but now we’re friends but the other day we both auditioned for a tv show and I got it and she didn’t and I was really exited and kept talking abt it and she said “Can you stop rubbing it in my face I’m really upset I didn’t get in!” But the thing is she always rubs things in my face and once called me a loser and said that I acted like I’m better than everyone and she can fake cry really well and she once stole my best friends and turned them against me so I had to switch friend groups but now I’m confused because if I don’t stay friends with her then she’ll ruin my life but if I do I’ll be miserable at times. WHAT DO I DO VICKY?! Thanks

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16 Apr 2026

9axAt

30" under and 32" boobs

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16 Apr 2026

1mCma

I’m 11 l, have discharge, I calculated my bra size I would be 32aa and my womb is growing (I get funny feelings below my belly button)

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16 Apr 2026

fooxN

hi vicki anotht question on discharge on ur page you said abiut some of the colours of it but should it be sticky? sorry if its a stupid question

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16 Apr 2026

oaZtm

I hate the look of my period — what can I do about it?

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15 Apr 2026

UaXwd

LNYPO I really don’t want to do it, i’ve been crying for ages this evening because i’m so worried about it and no one seems to understand

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15 Apr 2026

FJJ1c

Hey Vicki this is like soo random but like I'm at the age where you kinda discover ypirself and how you feel about people, I have a really close friend group that I know really well and stuff but there's always 1 person called M and I always want to look out for her and make her laugh and stuff but recently I feel like I like her more than just a friend and I don't know how to feel about myself or M and I'm really confused about my emotions and stuff Xxxx

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15 Apr 2026

1CiYJ

Hi Vicky! I was just wondering is it normal to change the way I act in front of my crush like in front of my friends I am very sassy and confident but in front of my crush I am a full-on pick-me. So yeah is this normal and do you have any advice? Thanks xx

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15 Apr 2026

FzfQy

This is a bit random but I think we should add a feature in the website where we can reply to your answers so that we can thank you or ask any additional questions

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15 Apr 2026

ciF0p

What does “spotting” mean (I saw it on here and am curious lol)

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15 Apr 2026

9r9br

hi vicki this may be a stupid question but im 11 and have discharge i have read your page ln it and am still worried about it do you have any top tips or advice? x

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15 Apr 2026

cOQj4

i havent got my period does discharge mean it comes soon?

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15 Apr 2026

YlVCu

Hi Vicki, Im 11 and love things when i wear them at home but feel really self conscious when I bear them to family gatherings and in public

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15 Apr 2026

xZ4JM

hey

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15 Apr 2026

3iUY3

Hi Vicki I just wanna say ty so much for answering all our questions even the dumb ones but my question is what is my bra size: underbust: 74cm, across my chest: 78cm

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15 Apr 2026

nESxm

Hi Vicki is it ok you menstrubate at 12 years ok bc (ik this is very tmi) but sometimes I touch my boobs and it makes me giggly I’m so sorry if this is inappropriate and you can edit it Ty

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