6 Feb 2026
XF3aG
Can first period be mistaken as a skidmark (poop mark, fart mark, whatever ya wanna call it)
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6 Feb 2026
XF3aG
Can first period be mistaken as a skidmark (poop mark, fart mark, whatever ya wanna call it)
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5 Feb 2026
Azjem
On one day about every two months I see this brown/ red stuff in my pants is this my first period? tkx
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5 Feb 2026
Jrclc
Hey Vicki! I wear crop top bras, but when I wear it to school I just feel really embarrassed and I feel like everyone can see it. Thanks! From Jamie x
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5 Feb 2026
3SGET
I don’t know why this question is stressin me out a bit bcuz I cause it’s hard to control what others think and I’m mentally preparing myself if I get in a relationship in future and this happens to me (if they become close with my female friends and possibly develop a crush on them cause they’re lovely attractive ppl)…. Is it morally wrong for a guy to FANTASISE about a crush who is a FRIEND of theirs or CLOSE FRIEND of theirs / their partner? Or does it depend on if it’s just curiosity, if it’s frequently, or depend on if they have a deep emotional connection or not towards that friend crush? It’s hard to know what the boundaries are of so or don’t I’m just scared I’ll be with a partner in future and that I won’t know what they’re thinking of others. Sexual fantasises are normal I read online whilst in a relationship - but what if it’s a colleague or close friend who is their CRUSH as well? How do you know which is emotional cheating or “just fantasising about crush” - but it’s somebody I’m close with in real life (not like celebrity)? I’m curious and confused. Sorry for confusing question. Thank you so much been playing on my mind xoxxox
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5 Feb 2026
DilTf
Hi Vicki I know this is a weird question but 1. does eczema cause itching on the vulva because I have eczema and 2. Today I was in math class when I felt wierd like it wasn’t the discharge kind basically I had a cramp and while I was cramping I felt like the entrance to my vagina opened up more and was softer and I felt slow heavy warm liquid come out si I went to check it if I got my period but no it was just really heavy discharge (don’t worry it’s not my first period) so I wanted to ask why the releasement of discharge feels exactly like the releasement of blood? Thank you
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5 Feb 2026
Zp4cO
People say I need to get better but I find comfort in living life like there's no tomorrow. I find comfort in my addictions, I find comfort in knowing that I can always just use one of my unhealthy coping mechanisms, and then it will make my head quiet.
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4 Feb 2026
0fzXi
Hi Vicki! I have two questions, I hope that’s ok. The first one is when should I wear bras, like, school? Home? My other question is how should a bra feel if it is the right size/on properly? Thank you so much for all the other questions you have answered, you are a real help!
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4 Feb 2026
IHcZw
School is so stressful, I'm not sleeping well lately because of it. Today was really bad, how can I ask my parents for a day off? I really need one but they keep on saying "maybe if you still feel this bad tomorrow" but tomorrow keeps on coming and I keep on feeling 'this bad'
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3 Feb 2026
p7JWh
Hi this is sort of a stupid question but we didn't really learn in school what is even the point of a clitoris?? like what does it do?
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