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Postpartum planning 101 (Part 1), By Genevieve Putter

This blog post is part of our Lil-Lets Talk about Becoming a Mom series where real moms share the physical and emotional realities of motherhood that aren’t spoken about openly enough. Join the conversation on Lil-Lets Talk.

This two-part blog series will look at how to plan for your fourth trimester - the 12-week period after childbirth. We’ll look at everything you need to consider, from what products to stock up on, to what services are available to you as a new mother, to how to set up your support structure and plan your days in that early postpartum period. Modern parenthood requires us to be more prepared than days gone by because the ‘village’ of support for new parents, specifically new mothers, is not as easily accessible as it once was. Think of this as your go-to guide, your road map on how to transition into this new phase of life with your mind, body and spirit intact.

Congratulations!

If you’re reading this you’re most likely awaiting the arrival of your precious bundle of joy. You’ve probably got all the baby gear – cot, pram, babygrows, and all the other paraphernalia that you’ve been told your baby needs. But what about what you need, mamma? What are some of the products and services available to you that will help you adjust to this New Normal of becoming a mother? Newborn babies really need very little to survive. It’s really just you and your partner that they need in those first few months postpartum. You, on the other hand, will be going through the most; leaking breasts, postpartum vaginal bleeding, cracked nipples, a sore abdomen, and immense sleep deprivation. So, here’s a list of some products and services to help you navigate this time.

 Products

Breast pads

Once your milk comes in on day 3-5 post birth, your breasts may feel like they don’t belong to you anymore. They’ve now turned into milk making machines and as a result you won’t have any control over them - their changing size, weight and what comes out of them. They will leak, and to help ease this and catch the off flow is Lil-Lets Maternity Breast Pads. Simply place them inside your bra covering your nipple and you’re good to go.

Breast pump/ milk catcher

If you’re breastfeeding it’s advised to wait until six weeks postpartum before you start getting into a pumping routine. Until then, to catch the overflow of milk from each breast while you feed your baby (because you want to save every last drop of this golden elixir) is a brilliant silicone manual breast pump called a Haaka. Simply place it on the breast your baby is not feeding from to catch the overflow. Leave it at room temperature and then freeze it to start building up a stash of milk.

Body oil/lotion

As part of your self care routine, lathering your skin and giving yourself a gentle massage after a bath (or getting your partner to) is a simple way to help energise yourself. Massage is a great way to move lymph around the body and to get rid of excess fluid as a result of pregnancy, especially as it is not recommended to be exercising much during the fourth trimester because you need to be resting as much as possible. Body oil or any substitute like coconut, olive, grapeseed or sesame oil not only moisturises your skin but also helps keep you warm, especially now that winter is here. Warmth is very important in the early postpartum phase as it helps with blood circulation and to heal your body post birth.

Lactation supplements

There are a host of different types of lactation supplements out there, from vitamins and herbs to teas and even certain foods that can help keep your milk supply up. Carmien Nursing tea, Mrs Milk Bars and Granola (with oats as the base) are all great options. Oats is known as a galactagogue and is found in many recipes across the world to promote lactation. A wholesome bowl of oats for breakfast is a great way to start the day to give your breasts the energy they need to make milk. There are various oral supplements you can take too, but it's advised to always check with your healthcare provider before taking them.

Maternity Pads

These are essential for any expecting mom to have ready and packed in her hospital bag. Lil-Lets Maternity Maxi Pads are designed to keep you feeling comfortable in the postpartum period as your body expels lochia (post birth blood).

Micropore

For the C-Section moms, micropore is your best friend to help your scar heal. Leave it on for up to five days before changing and you can bath, shower and wash with it too.

Nipple cream

While you get into a flow with breastfeeding, your nipples are going to feel raw and sensitive for a while. The best thing you can do to keep them in tip top shape is to apply nipple cream after every feed. There are a host of different types of nipple creams, but one pantry ingredient that works well too is coconut oil.

Nursing bras

Hands down an essential for new moms, especially those with larger breasts who feel like they need the support but could do without the hassle of undressing when wearing a regular bra. All major retailers sell them and they work by having an additional piece of fabric over the breast, which you unclip from the strap to expose your nipple to be able to feed your baby.

Peri bottle

This is a godsend for those who had a vaginal birth and experienced tearing or had to have an episiotomy during delivery. It’s a squirt bottle designed with the long spout angled at a curve so that when you squeeze it, the contents of the bottle (warm water) spray onto your perineum (the area of tissue between your vagina and anus). A peribottle is a handy tool to help clean this part of your body with as little mess and fuss as possible, and the warm liquid can provide relief. You use it every time you need the toilet in those first few days/ weeks postpartum by filling it up with warm water and when you sit on the toilet you hold it upright underneath you and squeeze it. The liquid cleans your tear, stitches and episiotomy site.

Perineum Spray

Once you’ve cleaned your perineum area, a perineum spray to help soothe inflammation and help your wound heal is a great idea. Most of these sprays contain witch hazel water. Witch hazel is a plant that’s been used for centuries to get rid of bacteria and reduce inflammation.

Sitz Bath

A sitz bath is basically a type of Epsom salt bath. There are certain products on the market that use Epsom salts as the main ingredient in their Sitz bath formulations but combine with other herbs and oils to assist in relaxation and healing. Epsom salts are a great source of magnesium, which has a deep relaxation effect. It is more effective than taking magnesium supplements orally because your skin absorbs magnesium much more efficiently.

Stool softener

Whether you’ve had a vaginal or C-Section birth, going to the toilet can be painful. A stool softener like Movicol can help alleviate the discomfort by softening the stool so it’s easier to eliminate. If you’d prefer to go the more natural route then soaking dried prunes in Rooibos tea and eating them is a tried and tested way to soften stool and relieve constipation. Don’t forget to drink lots of water.

Services/ service providers

Modern parenthood requires that we be a lot more vigilant and prepared for the fourth trimester. In this section we look at some services and service providers that could provide a second layer of support outside of your immediate structure of family and friends. Many of these are only called on if and when you need them but while you’re planning, it’s a good idea to at least find out who or which of these are available to you. They do all cost money so a great tip is to think about incorporating them into your baby shower registry or rather your parenting shower one. Newborns need so little and often you’ll find many who have already had kids will be willing to loan or gift you baby essentials like clothing, bottles, a baby bath or blankets. Rather ask your friends and family to contribute financially to a service provider rather than to items for your baby.

Bodyworker

Bodywork is a broad term to refer to any practitioners or modalities that work on the postpartum body. This can include anything from chiropractics, physiotherapy, osteopathy, massage or any other treatment that can relax your body or get you into alignment. Birth is like running a marathon, our muscles, joints, ligaments and connective tissue are put under immense pressure to birth our babies, even if it is by Caesarean – carrying a heavy weight for 9 months can take its toll too. It's advised to not be active in the postpartum period and to focus on rest. Yet movement is how we drain excess fluid and lymph and why getting a session with a physio, masseuse or chiro can be so beneficial in our recovery.

Doula

You get many different types of doulas, most notably, birth and postpartum doulas. Doulas are advocates for the mother and her partner during birth and the fourth trimester. They offer emotional, physical and informational support. Although they are not medically trained, they have very up to date knowledge on medical interventions when it comes to childbirth and recovery from birth and can point you in the direction of medical professionals if a situation arises. Research shows that having a birth doula for your birth drastically improves your overall birth experience and the prevention of birth trauma. Postpartum doulas are becoming way more popular as an intervention and preventative strategy for perinatal mental health disorders.  The rates for hiring a doula vary anywhere between R5 000 to R10 000, depending on your needs.

Gynaecologist

For many women, their gynaecologist is the only consistent healthcare practitioner they see for the duration of their pregnancy. However, after birth it’s only recommended to see your gynae once as a general check up to see how you are recovering. This is anywhere between 2 to 6 weeks postpartum. If you are experiencing any difficulties, don’t be afraid to reach out to your gynae. Before your appointment make a list of questions to discuss, nothing is off limits.

Lactation consultant

One of the biggest challenges postpartum women face is breastfeeding. Whilst many midwives in maternity hospitals have some knowledge to impart to new moms on how to breastfeed, it isn’t specialised enough. Breastfeeding is a learnt art and because of this you most likely will need a trained lactation consultant to help guide you through it. Every pair of breasts and every baby is different. Starting your journey off right with the help of a lactation consultant is your best bet for an easier experience. Most well baby clinics, maternity hospitals and doulas can refer you to a specialised lactation consultant. Make sure you book two or three sessions with one once your baby is born.

Mealtrain

One of the best things a family with a new baby can receive is regular, fresh, homemade meals delivered to their door, and most people would love nothing more than to cook one. The Mealtrain app is a great tool to set one up, either by yourself or to enlist one of your family members or friends to do it for you. All you need is the list of people in your life who you know would like to contribute and their email addresses. You create your meal train on the app and then send it out to them, they then fill in which day and what meal they’ll be cooking on the template. The day before, they get a reminder emailed to them.

Online shopping

Worrying about grocery shopping is less of a thing nowadays thanks to the world of online shopping. Most retailers have an online shopping portal for you to do your shopping from the comfort of home and to get delivered. Make sure you set up your profiles before baby arrives.

Pelvic floor specialist

It should be standard that all postpartum women get assessed by a pelvic floor physiotherapist. The pelvic floor is the group of muscles integral in holding us together during pregnancy and allowing for vaginal delivery. They therefore need some support in recovery. Often women develop incontinence after birth and a host of other pelvic problems due to how they carried in their pregnancy and how they healed postpartum, especially if there was tearing or an episiotomy. Even C-Section moms can benefit from seeing a pelvic floor specialist.

Psychologist / social worker/ councilor
If you have struggled with mental health prior to falling pregnant, it would be a good idea to reach out to a professional during your pregnancy and early postpartum for support. Women who have had a prior mental health diagnosis are more prone to developing a Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorder any time during pregnancy or postpartum.

Social Media/ Online Support

There’s a plethora of social media accounts like The New Normal on Instagram and online support platforms like Lil-Lets Talk that provide not only relevant information, but also the opportunity to connect with others. Join Facebook and mom’s WhatsApp groups in your area to find moms at a similar stage as you. The power of the the #MomTribe is undeniable during this time when you can feel very isolated. It’s good to know that there are others going through what you are, too.

Genevieve Putter is a Lil-lets Talk Expert Responder, digital doula and founder of The New Normal Instagram account

The views expressed in this blog post are those of the author. Any product recommendations are their own, and do not imply endorsement by Lil-Lets or Premier FMCG

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