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Frequently Asked Questions
Questions about Boobs & Bras
I’m worried Vicki because only one of my breasts has started to grow what could be wrong plz?
Show AnswerNo need to worry, it’s totally normal for one breast to grow faster than the other. The other side usually catches up over time, so just give it a few months.
Questions about Emotions & Feelings
Why are my emotions all over the place I am 12?
Show AnswerPuberty can feel like a real emotional rollercoaster, one minute you're happy, the next you're sad or even tearful. It can be a lot to handle, and that’s exactly why we created this website, to help you feel supported and not alone.
I’m getting really stressed about homework and don’t know what to do?
Show AnswerFeeling stressed about homework is totally normal, especially when you’re also dealing with all the changes that come with puberty. One of my top tips is to split your evening into three parts: spend about an hour studying (no need to overdo it), then get active with something fun like dancing or going for a walk to lift your mood, and finally, take an hour to relax before bed, and try to stay off screens during that time.
Questions about Friendships & Dating
How can I tell someone I have a crush on them?
Show AnswerIf you have a crush on someone, try smiling when you see them, it shows you're happy to be around them. If you feel comfortable, ask them a few questions about what they like or don’t like (people love feeling like someone’s interested in them!). If they respond and seem into the conversation, you can take it from there. You don’t always have to say how you feel right away, sometimes your actions can say it for you!
None of my friends are going to my new school and I am really scared I will be alone!
Show AnswerIt’s only natural to feel nervous about starting at a new school without your friends and lots of people feel the same way. Even though it might seem scary now, this is also a chance to meet new people who could become great friends. Try smiling, saying’ hi’ to someone sitting near you, or asking a simple question like, ‘Do you know what class we have next?’ Little things like that can help you feel less alone and open the door to new friendships.
Questions about Periods
HI VICKI I’m 13 and haven’t started my periods yet. why?
Show AnswerDon’t worry, periods can start anytime between ages 8 and 18. Keep an eye out for signs like discharge or spots, which usually mean your period isn’t far away.
Hi Vicki. I've had my period for more than 2 years now, and during that time it has never been regular, why??
Show AnswerHi, it’s actually really common for periods to stay irregular for a few years after they first start, so try not to worry. Your body is still figuring things out, and things usually settle down over time.
Questions about Our Products
When is the right time to use a tampon?
Show AnswerIt’s a good idea to wait until you’ve had about 4 or 5 periods before trying tampons. That way, you’ll understand your flow better and can choose the right absorbency for your cycle.
My mum’s pads are so big and bulky they make me sore, what should I do?
Show AnswerThat’s totally understandable, some pads can feel bulky, especially if they’re not designed for younger bodies. That’s why brands like Lil-Lets created a Teens range, with pads that are smaller, slimmer, and more comfortable, perfect for those just starting their period journey.
Questions about Your Body
What should I do for skincare at 13, when I have my period.
Show AnswerRight before your period, it's super common to get a few extra spots because of hormone changes, it’s totally normal! Just keep up your skincare routine and try not to pick at them.
Is it normal to get watery discharge?
Show AnswerYes, discharge can look and feel different sometimes, even watery discharge is totally normal. You may want to try using liners when you do notice this to help keep you and your underwear clean and fresh.
Questions about Puberty
What age should I expect puberty to start, I am now 9 thx.
Show AnswerPuberty usually starts between ages 8 and 13 for girls and between 9 and 14 for boys. Everyone grows at their own pace, so it’s totally normal if you or your friends start changing at different times.
What are the first signs of puberty I will notice?
Show AnswerOne of the first signs of puberty for girls is breast development, and then you might notice growing underarm or pubic hair, and of course mood swings!
Questions about Sex & Sexual Feelings
Hi Vicki I’m a 13-year-old girl I am aroused all the time is there any way I can stop this as it annoys me?
Show AnswerIt is quite natural to find yourself with sexual thoughts and even desires as you enter your teenage years so, please don't worry too much. My tip to keep these thoughts to a minimum are to keep busy with family, friends and new hobbies.
Is it okay to like boys and girls, does it mean there’s something wrong with me?
Show AnswerIt’s completely okay to like boys and girls. Some people feel this way, and it’s called being bisexual. It just means you can have feelings for more than one gender, and that’s a normal part of how some people experience attraction. You don’t need to have everything figured out right now, what matters most is being kind to yourself and knowing that who you are is perfectly okay.
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If you have a question, you're not alone. We've answered thousands, and no topic is off-limits. Ask Vicki is a real person (not a bot!). She has plenty of experience but isn't a medical professional–if she doesn't have the answer, she'll help you find the right support.
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Ask VickiIf you are unsure on what to ask, you can explore our variety of blogs, with real talk about periods and everything in between.
Break the Cycle
The education around periods has been passed down through generations as something to hide. It's time for that to end. Everyone deserves to feel confident, informed and empowered about their body. Lil-Let's open up honest conversations and create a space for every voice.
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Break the cycle of secrecy around periods with open, honest conversations. We understand that these conversations can feel daunting, and you want to have all the answers. Whether puberty is new or already here, our guide helps you navigate these meaningful discussions with your child.
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